Aggression and Egocentrism: The Failure Triangle of Modern Politicians

Aggression and Egocentrism: The Failure Triangle of Modern Politicians

Author: Goya Roshan

When great politicians hold power, they face two paths before them: listening and exercising patience, or choosing aggression and egocentrism. Contemporary experience shows that those who choose the latter path, even if they are talented, endanger both themselves and their countries. Clear examples of this style can be seen in Donald Trump and Recep Tayyip Erdoğan.

Despite being fully aware of the importance of relations with allies, Trump has repeatedly demonstrated through his harsh rhetoric and verbal attacks against Canada, Mexico, and even Germany on the international stage that his priority is displays of power and attracting media attention.
During the period of trade tariffs, even when the U.S. economy needed cooperation with Canada and China, his hasty decisions created anxiety among companies and led to the loss of some moderate support within his voter base. This example illustrates how aggression can squander reputation and opportunities.

Erdoğan provides another example. His frequent accusations against domestic opposition, often framed as conspiracy theories, and his direct interference with the media reveal a confrontational and egocentric style. While this approach has consolidated his loyal base, it has also pushed the country into economic and political crises and limited its diplomatic opportunities.

What these two politicians share is a tendency to speak excessively and listen too little. The Turkish proverb “The red tongue exposes the green head to the wind” perfectly describes their situation: reckless speech leads to the loss of opportunities, reputation, and even security. By contrast, those who listen more and speak less gather more accurate information and make better decisions.

In politics, composure and patience function like forms of capital. Aggression may appear attractive and effective in the short term; however, true power lies in the ability to listen, analyze circumstances, and make sound decisions. The experiences of Trump and Erdoğan demonstrate that aggression and egocentrism, even when they seem to bring success, are ultimately limiting and corrosive in the long run.