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Being people is not important; being human is important In a world where population and numbers have become the measure of value, we often forget that more than anything else, people need real relationships, not crowds. Although in today’s world people are more connected to each other than ever before. Social media, social gatherings, and friendly get-togethers mean fewer people are truly alone, yet a strange problem exists: the feeling of loneliness has not decreased. Perhaps the reason is that crowds do not necessarily mean intimacy and security. Sometimes, in a large crowd, a person can be lonelier than ever. Over the years, we have learned to confuse quantity with value: we think the more people we have around us, the richer our lives will be. But in my personal experience, the quality of relationships is far more important than their number. A few healthy and genuine relationships can give a person a sense of peace that no crowd can provide. Of course, we must understand what it m...

  Do Some People Take Pleasure in the Suffering of Others? Author:  Gouya Roshan I do not believe that someone who takes pleasure in the pain of others is necessarily “cruel.” However, the hearts of such individuals often carry one common trait: unresolved suffering. Those who have been repeatedly humiliated or ignored sometimes find a temporary sense of power or calm in watching others fail. This is not always driven by malice, but rather by a constant comparison with others and by measuring their self-worth against past humiliations. In this process, the mistakes of others become a source of psychological nourishment for them. These individuals are not entirely heartless, but they often lack deep empathy; as if their capacity for empathy has not fully developed. Behind this behavior lies a hidden fear. The faces of those who take pleasure in others’ suffering often scream an unspoken message: “At least I am not the worst one.” More important than these personality traits, ho...

  Truth, Pain, and Humanity Author: Gouya Roshan  Sometimes people suffer not because of what they have done, but simply because of who they are. This is a truth that cannot be denied. Years of separation from my homeland and loved ones still breathe within me as a deep sense of alienation; as if my soul is trapped in a cage within my chest. My body, my heart, and my memories remind me every day what it means to be oppressed simply for “existing.” Today, my suffering is no longer merely personal; it is the suffering of a truth that has been labeled a “crime.” When people are punished not for their actions or choices, but for their identity, the world reveals its naked face of cruelty. While the people of Iran live under the weight of so much violence and fear, how can the silence of the world be justified? Silence is no longer a virtue; in moments like these, it can become another form of complicity. And yet, an awakened conscience still exists—a voice that rises not from powe...

  A letter to my dear and valiant nation of Iran Author: Gouya Roshan  Although today I cannot be with you, although my voice is lost amid the hail of bullets and the suffocating streets of the mullahs’ regime, my heart is with you… with every step you take, with every cry that is trapped in your throat. The burning tears of longing flow uncontrollably down my cheeks. I know that distant shouts, raised from the safe streets of other countries, are no balm for the pain of my homeland’s blood-stained streets. I know they cannot heal so many wounds and so much courage. I, and perhaps many of us, are not physically with you, but our souls follow in your footsteps, O brave people, my wounded Iran. For years I have been unable to embrace my loved ones. This warmth, this distance, slowly consumes a person. It is a pain that defies expression and condemns the nights to silent tears. I hope that one day, not too far from now, I will be with you again. With my brave compatriots, with my...

  Trust; a word everyone speaks, but few live by Author: Gouya Roshan  Distrust among individuals is a complex and multidimensional phenomenon rooted in personal experiences, social structures, and historical transformations. Human beings, as social creatures, are inevitably engaged in interaction with others; yet these interactions are often accompanied by disappointments, betrayals, misunderstandings, or inequalities, sowing seeds of doubt in both mind and heart. When trust, the very foundation of human relationships, is damaged, bonds weaken and an invisible yet profound distance forms between people. In a world where the pace of change, competition, and social pressures continue to intensify, distrust is no longer merely an individual feeling but has become a collective problem. This condition threatens not only personal relationships, but also social cohesion, cooperation, and even the broader meaning of human life itself. To address the concept of distrust is, in essence...

  Winter Is the Season of Inequality Author: Goya Roshan Winter is not the same for everyone. While for some it is a time of calm, silence, and the safety of a warm home, for others it becomes the harshest test of survival. This inequality lies not in the severity of the cold, but in how it is experienced. When I look outside through the window, I cannot feel at ease. A window is not merely a pane of glass; it is a boundary between two worlds. On one side, relative security, warmth, and comfort; on the other, cold, homelessness, and fear of the night. This simple contrast challenges the human conscience. Winter is the hardest season for the poor, not because it is colder than other seasons, but because it exposes accumulated deprivation. The lack of safe shelter, warm clothing, or heating turns cold from a natural phenomenon into a disabling suffering. Under such conditions, poverty is no longer just a lack of income; it is the loss of security, health, and human dignity. What peop...

Aggression and Egocentrism: The Failure Triangle of Modern Politicians Author:  Goya Roshan When great politicians hold power, they face two paths before them: listening and exercising patience, or choosing aggression and egocentrism. Contemporary experience shows that those who choose the latter path, even if they are talented, endanger both themselves and their countries. Clear examples of this style can be seen in Donald Trump and Recep Tayyip Erdoğan. Despite being fully aware of the importance of relations with allies, Trump has repeatedly demonstrated through his harsh rhetoric and verbal attacks against Canada, Mexico, and even Germany on the international stage that his priority is displays of power and attracting media attention. During the period of trade tariffs, even when the U.S. economy needed cooperation with Canada and China, his hasty decisions created anxiety among companies and led to the loss of some moderate support within his voter base. This example illustrat...

  An Inner Boundary for Remaining Human Author: Gouya Roshan  In a world where judgment and humiliation happen very quickly, being human is difficult. Many of us highlight the flaws of others and overlook our own. But what if, before every judgment, we looked inward? What if we were reminded that our own flaws and sins might be greater than all others? This article is an experience of a way of life: a method I have lived with for years and that has kept my path illuminated. For years, whenever I enter a gathering, before thinking about the flaws of others, I tell myself: perhaps my flaws and sins are greater than everyone else’s. Not to humiliate myself or out of fear, but to prevent crossing a boundary called judgment, humiliation, or discrimination. This inner reminder has not distanced me from life or made me hopeless; rather, it has been a light that has kept my path clear. With this perspective, I have been able to interact with others without judgment or a sense of super...

  What Is Honor? Author: Gouya Roshan In many traditional societies, a man’s value and identity are tied to his control over the women in his family. Over time,  honor  has been transformed into a sexualized concept imposed on women, rather than a reflection of truth, humanity, integrity, and responsibility. Of course, this perception differs in Western societies, where social pressure is generally less intense. However, if we consider the following, it becomes clear that this sensitivity often stems from inner anxiety and insecurity: a lack of self-confidence, fear of social judgment, or low self-esteem. Instead of cultivating intrinsic values, individuals cling to superficial perceptions and the control of others. In some societies, people do not hold this view out of personal conviction, but out of fear of what others might say. As a result, honor becomes something defined by others, not by one’s own conscience. At times, instead of being a genuine moral value, honor i...

Reconsidering Human Value in the Contemporary Materialistic World Author: Goya Roshan (Guya Aydın ) Reconsidering Human Value in the Contemporary Materialistic World In contemporary societies, money and material possessions have become dominant criteria for evaluating individuals. The central position that wealth occupies in collective consciousness has gradually marginalized fundamental values such as morality, honesty, empathy, and the qualitative depth of human relationships. Within this framework, interpersonal relations, particularly family ties and friendships, are increasingly shaped not by trust and emotional intimacy but by economic status and external indicators of success. As a consequence, individuals who may lack substantial material resources yet possess significant intellectual and ethical competence are frequently rendered invisible. In contrast to this reductionist value system, there exist individuals who, despite financial constraints, experience life through depth, ...

  From Torture and Prison to Execution Within the Family Author: Gouya Roshan (Guya Aydın ) I do not write these words based on hearsay; I write from a place where body and memory have become one, and memory itself turns into a wound. This is the policy of a regime, a policy that defines the opponent, restricts them, breaks them, and removes them. History knows this violence; the world does too. It is bitter and criminal, yet within the logic of power it is recognizable: violence as a tool of control. But what is happening today is not of that kind. The killing of people during a march is no longer the suppression of opposition. It is the crossing of a boundary that, once governments pass it, permanently alters their relationship with society. Here, the issue is no longer the “position of the opposition”; the very presence of the people becomes the problem. Nameless bodies, flagless voices, the mere existence of people is interpreted as an existential threat. And this interpretatio...

True Modernity: Human Dignity Beyond Race, Culture, and Technology Author: Gouya Roshan (Güya Aydın) Racial discrimination is irrational and inhumane, because skin color is merely the result of genetic differences and adaptation to different environments; it is not an indicator of superior or inferior value, intelligence, morality, or humanity. From a human and ethical (as well as religious) perspective, human dignity is equal for everyone because we all come from the same Creator. Judgments based on skin color reflect fear, ignorance, historical prejudice, and sometimes a desire for superiority, rather than truth. Often, such judgments are learned in childhood through culture or incorrect social narratives and unfortunately remain unquestioned. Questioning and empathy are the first steps toward breaking this cycle. In many Western societies, such as the United States, Canada, and European countries, there are individuals who consider themselves “modern” or “progressive,” and this perc...

Iraqi Kurdistan: A Wearing Stability and a Future on Hold Author Gouya Roshan(Güya Aydın ) Iraqi Kurdistan today stands neither on the brink of collapse nor on a path toward sustainable progress. What defines this region is a condition suspended between the two:  a wearing stability that produces no hope yet prevents crisis from erupting . It is quiet, slow, and persistent—gradually eroding society while endlessly postponing the future. After decades of struggle, autonomy, and the construction of formal institutions, Kurdistan’s central question is no longer recognition; it is  the quality of governance after autonomy . Power, instead of becoming institutionalized, remained concentrated within party–family networks. A government was formed, but not an accountable one; a parliament was established, but not an independent political will; elections were held, but real rotation of power never occurred. This gap between the appearance of institutions and the reality of power lies a...

 The Contradiction Between Rhetoric and Action: Erdoğan’s Policy Toward Israel Author Gouya Roshan (Güya Aydın) The Contradiction Between Rhetoric and Action: Erdoğan’s Policy Toward Israel The Contradiction Between Rhetoric and Action: Erdoğan’s Policy Toward Israel, Azerbaijan, and the Realities of Regional Politics Over the past decade, Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan has repeatedly presented himself as one of the fiercest critics of Tel Aviv’s regional policies and has sharply condemned Israel, particularly Benjamin Netanyahu. These positions, especially on sensitive issues surrounding Palestine, have resonated widely among public opinion in the Islamic world. However, a closer examination of Turkey’s foreign policy reveals a deep and structural gap between these harsh statements and the actual actions of Erdoğan’s government. At the political level, Erdoğan accuses Israel of human rights violations and crimes against Palestinians (which is, of course, true) and at times...

Some pains are so deep that they need no validation .  Author: Gouya Roshan(Güya Aydın )  You merely whisper, “Really…,” and that single word carries with it a caravan of unspoken words. No explanation, no follow-up; that brief word is a complete confession, without judgment, without defense. At times, silence itself settles on the chest like a cold stone; it steals the breath, strangles the voice in the throat. And when you finally open your mouth, you realize that words, too, have weight, the weight of lingering memories, the weight of unnamed fears, the weight of a wound not yet spoken. Silence slowly suffocates, and speech leaves you exposed, defenseless, standing in the wind. That is why some pains are neither spoken nor hidden; they simply remain. They sit beside you, walk with you, breathe with you, and grow old with you. Yet despite all this, there are moments when some people, though physically distant—are unconsciously very near, as if they breathe beside you and hea...

Life Is Not a Battlefield Author: Gouya Roshan(Guya Aydın ) It has long been said that life is a battlefield; meaning that one must endure hardships, not lose hope, not surrender, and not give up. This does not mean that one must fight to survive, to progress, or to destroy others. However, over time, this perspective has taken root in people’s minds and turned into a widespread belief. But is life truly like this? Were humans born to fight one another? Many people, like myself, have never seen life as a battlefield. As far back as I can remember, I have always had to struggle with difficulties, yet I have never used others as stepping stones for my own advancement. For me, life is an opportunity to understand, to build, and to live together—not an arena for destruction and annihilation. Unfortunately, this mindset is reflected in many people in different ways and manifests itself in interpersonal relationships, education, and even within families. When life is viewed as a struggle, ot...