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When Humans Do Not Speak to One Another Author: Gouya Roshan

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  When Humans Do Not Speak to One Another A simple yet profound wish lives in the hearts of many of us: If only all humans could speak with one another… truly speak. Not from behind fear. Not from behind pride. Not from behind the borders that separate us. And not from behind judgments that silence us before we are heard. Today’s world is full of noise, yet it lacks dialogue. We write, react, chant slogans, debate… but we listen less. We rarely sit down to see another human not as “the other,” but as someone like ourselves — a person with fears, failures, hopes, and wounds that may never have found a chance to be expressed. If people could sit together without intermediaries and share their pain, perhaps many misunderstandings would be resolved before turning into hatred. If every anger had a chance to be heard, perhaps it would less often turn into violence. Because behind much anger lies a silent and unseen sorrow. We are often afraid to show our vulnerability. We have learned to...

Sadness Is Not Always Our Enemy- By: Gouya Roshan

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Sadness Is Not Always Our Enemy Sadness is not always our enemy. Sometimes it comes quietly, settles beside our hearts in silence, and weighs on us without making a sound. We run from sadness, hide it, deny it; because we have learned to be strong, to smile, to keep going. But the truth is this: Sadness is a part of being human. Sadness emerges when we lose something: a person, a dream, a trust, or even an image of ourselves. Every loss leaves a small emptiness within us. If these emptinesses are ignored, they turn into a deep silence — a silence that screams louder than any sound in the night. Some see sadness as a sign of weakness. But sadness is a sign of depth. Those who have never been sad have probably never loved deeply. Sadness is the price of connection; the price of love. If something does not matter to us, losing it does not break us. So if we break, it means something in our hearts was truly valuable. Sadness helps us recognize what truly matters. In moments of joy, we ofte...

Has the World Become Dirtier, or Have We Become More Aware? By Gouya Roshan

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Has the World Become Dirtier, or Have We Become More Aware? Sometimes we feel that the world has become more polluted, more ruthless, and more immoral than ever before. It only takes a shocking headline, a violent video, or a report about corruption and injustice to make us feel that humanity is withering. But is today’s world truly darker than the past, or have the veils simply been lifted? A look at history shows that violence, war, slavery, discrimination, and injustice are nothing new. We only need to turn the pages of history: from wars between empires to genocides, from the Inquisition to ethnic massacres. Tragedies such as the  Al‑Anfal Campaign  have also been documented. The world has always carried the potential for darkness. So why do we feel it is “dirtier” today? The answer may lie in information. We live in an age when an event from the most remote corner of the world appears on our smartphone screens within seconds. Social media, independent media, and citizen j...

The Season of Giving; The Brightest Season of Human Life- By: Gouya Roshan

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The Season of Giving; The Brightest Season of Human Life-  During the short span of human life, all our present possessions, wealth, abilities, youth, status, and even loved ones are temporary. History and human experience have repeatedly shown that no possession lasts forever. This simple yet profound truth leads us to a fundamental question: if one day we must leave everything behind, why should we not give with our own hands before that day arrives? As God says in the  Qur'an , Surah Al-Munafiqun, verse 10: “And spend from what We have provided for you before death comes to one of you…” Human beings constantly strive to own: a house, land, capital, fame, or power. Yet time passes indifferently over these possessions. What we have today may belong to someone else tomorrow. This transit is not a threat, but a warning, a reminder that the true value of possessions lies not in accumulating them, but in using them wisely. Wealth that is hoarded only for oneself becomes a heavy...

Patience: The Art I Learned from Falling By Gouya Roshan

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Patience; An Art I Learned from Falling I can say with complete certainty that I was one of the most impatient people in the world. I wanted to reach everything quickly, see the results of my work quickly, and be noticed quickly. I considered every delay a failure and every obstacle a sign of weakness. I often fell and got hurt, but I immediately stood up so that no one would notice. Not out of pride, but out of fear of remaining on the ground. It took years for me to understand that talent, luck, and motivation could not save me. What truly made me patient was patience itself. But not the kind of patience that appears calm and composed on the surface; the patience I have come to understand is the result of repeated practice and perseverance. Sitting still is not patience. True patience means continuing when you are tired, taking risks when you are wounded, and moving forward even when no one encourages you... I learned patience not from books, but through failure. Every time I failed,...

In a world filled with loneliness, we need one another- By: Gouya Roshan

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In a world filled with loneliness, we need one another . We live in an age where people are more connected than ever before; yet at the same time, we are lonelier than ever. News spreads faster, images appear instantly; but very little truly touches the heart. The world seems full of discordant voices, yet very few people are truly listening. Many people are busy with their own lives; smiling, occupied, taking photos, replying to messages… yet deep inside they hide an indescribable sadness—one that has neither been noticed nor understood. And loneliness does not always mean being alone; sometimes it means no one sits beside you, no one pours you a cup of tea. Perhaps what humanity needs most today is not more advanced technology or faster information, but genuine connection between people. Someone to say, “Don’t worry. Sit down. There’s no rush. I’m here. I’m with you.” Just imagine: if we could embrace every tired and hopeless person in the world, even for a moment… If we could take t...

Digital Age Privacy Author: Gouya Roshan

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                                             Digital Age Privacy In today’s world, with the widespread use of smartphones and social media, threats to data privacy are greater than ever before. People are increasingly becoming insensitive to the dignity and personality of others. Even in a small incident on the street, some individuals prefer to take out their phones and capture photos instead of offering help. These images can quickly spread online and sometimes permanently change a person’s life. With the emergence of social media, our lifestyle has also transformed. Many people instantly share what they eat, what they wear, or what they experience at parties. Colorful tables, expensive clothes, and extravagant celebrations are displayed without considering their impact on others. This behavior can lead to painful comparisons, feelings of inadequacy, and psychological pre...