Not Every Phone Call Comes from Missing You
Not Every Phone Call Comes from Missing You Some people do not call you because they miss you. They call you only to unload their own burdens, not to listen to what you have to say. Not every phone call comes from longing. Not every “How are you?” is asked out of genuine care. Sometimes people call you simply because they have nowhere else to release the weight of their thoughts and emotions. They do not choose you because they truly value you; they choose you because they know you will stay silent and listen. They talk about their problems, their arguments, their failures, and the people they dislike. They can talk for hours, yet they never ask, “How are you?” And even when they do ask, it is often nothing more than a formality. They are not really waiting for your answer. Before you even finish your first sentence, the conversation returns to their own life. And every time you call them, they end the conversation quickly with a few short words. This is no longer friendship; it is the...